Starting from a quote i read

There’s a quote from this man initialed J.D. I read it somewhere. I’ll just type it here ^^

I have a thought… the ONE God has meant for us is going to be the hardest to get, the hardest to keep, and the hardest to accept. Because through all that, love will grow stronger, bonds will become thicker, and the future will become more clear.

Love wasn’t made to be easy, otherwise, we wouldn’t end up with the RIGHT person, we would end up with the first one who came along. By struggling, we single out the wrong ones and realize who really is the ONE.

I agree that what God meant for us is never easy because it’s the best for us. To get/keep/accept what best for us is never easy. J So do love.

That’s why I always believe that love is never just about feeling, but also more to commitment and some other things. Without commitment and those other things, love won’t stay long.

And about realizing the one God has meant for us… it’s about making decision, I believe. We, at least me, can’t never be so sure if the one is really the one God has meant for us/me. But, once I keep this on my mind: once I make decision, once I meet someone and once we’re bounds in a marriage, he IS the one and he will be the only one. I will keep a faith that he’s the one God meant for me even if he’s not. Why?

It is because knowing the best and making decision is two different things, especially in marriage. For me, marriage is a sacred thing that only happened once in a lifetime. So, once I made a decision, it can’t be changed. None can change it, not even a divorce. ^^ Call me conservative, but that’s my belief. ^^a

Well, just giving comments about the quote I read yesterday. ^__^ How about you, Ally? Any other story from your side? Waiting for your side-story, Ally ^-^

See you later,
-raina-